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My husband and I kissed goodbye in the kitchen, and bid each other farewell: “See you in bed.” He, a professional musician, was off to a gig. And I, a professional pleasure activist, was off to a sensual dance class.  Rather than giving each other an expectation of meeting at a certain time, we […]

Here’s what society doesn’t tell us growing up: When you feel sexy, you are harder to push over. When you enjoy your body, you are harder to turn against yourself. And vice versa. When you give up on feeling ecstatic, you are easier to manipulate. When you desert the enjoyment of your body, you […]

Click below if you prefer to listen Simple truth: your female body is designed for enjoyment. She’s a creature engineered by Mother Nature to fully enjoy herself, and to be enjoyed by others. Also true is that owning this reality in our culture can feel risqué, but it’s scientific fact. We didn’t evolve just […]